Hurt is normal once you love someone you cant help being hurt by that person. You cant allow your self to love someone or not to love them.
You are not the sole controller of how you feel if we were then we all would have our fairy tales. Choosing who we want to love,marry and be with for any period of time, but as life has it we don't have that choice. we do however have free will which we can use as our strength to pull our hearts away from those it chooses if we are not already forced to do so my our partner.
We often curse love and vow never to be apart of it again, but eventually we fall face first in it again and again because the fact is that we live to be loved and to love. To hurt and to be hurt but always, to love again.
You are not the sole controller of how you feel if we were then we all would have our fairy tales. Choosing who we want to love,marry and be with for any period of time, but as life has it we don't have that choice. we do however have free will which we can use as our strength to pull our hearts away from those it chooses if we are not already forced to do so my our partner.
We often curse love and vow never to be apart of it again, but eventually we fall face first in it again and again because the fact is that we live to be loved and to love. To hurt and to be hurt but always, to love again.